So how do we mend the holes we find in our marriage? First don't let them get too big. Mend them when they are tiny, before resentment sets down deep roots. Communication is key. However sometimes emotions are raw and we find that communication is difficult or impossible. In this case start small, find some gesture that will show your spouse that you love them even in difficulty and you want to be a blessing to them. This could be as simple as slipping a love note along with their favorite candy into their lunch for them to discover later on. Or maybe rent their favorite movie or a new release they have been wanting to see and fix some snacks and just enjoy being together. Our time together doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. In fact it is in doing the simple things that will allow us to make time for our spouses daily and in any circumstance.
Pray beforehand for God to open both of your hearts to healing. Our heavenly father created both of you and He knows what you each need to make it through these hurdles and it is His will for our marriages to be healthy and thriving. He is worthy of our trust. Remember that you are not responsible for how your spouse acts, but you are responsible for your actions. Honor Christ even when it is hard.
And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12
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